Many thoughts but ....

This past two weeks past really quickly. Birthday celebrations. Meeting up with long lost cousin as well as lots to catch up at work.

 

During this two weeks, I had many thoughts that I wanted to share with you but too little time to do so. Many say time shouldn't be an excuse for not having things done but that's the truth. I lead a busy life. : )

 

Perhaps its also due to an unfriendly phone that doesn't really allow me to blog while on the go thus I intend to trade in the Omnia for another phone. I heard HTC Pro is coming out soon so hopefully that will enhance my mobile blogging experience.

 

The Chinese Olympics ended really quickly but am glad I managed to catch some games on television, especially the one that gave Singapore a silver medal. I won't go too much into this silver medal win as I know its everywhere in the forums now.

 

I had this thought about Tiger Woods while I was in the toilet earlier. I have no idea why his name suddenly settled in my head as I am no golfing fan. I put the name together - Tiger + Woods and what came into my mind was a forest full of tigers. Did you ever have thoughts like that or am I just plain weird?

 

During the National Day Rally, PM Lee mentioned about marriage and the long awaited baby bonus. Yahoo ...!! I will be richer when I get kids but like what Flying Dutchman said over radio. Instead of giving this bonus indefinitely, why not have it for a limited period only? I am sure with this in place, kiasu Singaporeans will surely make babies and by end of 2009, the population will increase by a tremendous percentage, don't you agree?

 

PM Lee also spoke about singles not making friends , being overly picky etc. Maybe the government might want to come out with more monetary ideas to spur on marriages like providing marriage bonus too but too bad, I aren't eligible.

 

Enough said, will blabber on again next time ....

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A Silver for Singapore ...

Its a Silver for the Singapore table tennis Women's Team and surely a proud moment for Singaporeans as our golden girls received their medals at the prize presentation ceremony.

I believe this is the first time that Singaporeans watched the Singapore flag being raised at an Olympic event. It took Singapore 48 years, a really long time and 48 years ago, television wasn't a very common thing.

So now that the team event is over, we are awaiting for more action from our golden girls when the table tennis singles games come up later this week. I believe there will be lots of pressure on them to do well as Singapore surely wishes for another medal.

So good luck to our table tennis team .....!!

An Olympic medal ... finally

Finally, Singapore will have a second Olympic medals and all thanks to our women's table tennis team. Yahoooo!

Many argued the fact that it wasn't really something to be proud of due to the fact that all the players who represented the Singapore flag were imported from China.

To me it didn't matter if they were not pure bred Singaporeans like myself, what mattered most was the fact that they delivered what they were supposed to do, the loyalty they have shown by training hard in bringing joy to the nation. You have to admit it wasn't an easy task but they did it after years of hard work.

Right now, we are only a game away from having Majula Singapura ( National Anthem ) heard at the Olympics and its definitely going to be a glorious moment for us all as Singaporeans when the gold medal really came our way but even if it didn't, we also know that the pure bred Chinese are far more superior in this game.

Tian Wei, Jia Wei, Yue Gu and Bei Bei, good luck and we must say you ladies have done us proud.

The Olympics ....

Its the Olympic fever right now thus how can I not write anything about this BIG event that is going on in Asia.

This is a time when people from all different countries, races and backgrounds come together to compete in a sporting event. When I meant different countries, its so true that I cannot figure out some of the flags. Not to say that my geography is bad but I don't think you know how the flag of Uzbekistan and Kazakhstan look like ya?

This evening, I watched a wrestling event which I never knew existed in the Olympic Games and what's worst, I don't even know the scoring system. I just found that the game looked very similar to that of Sumo Wrestling, which is part of the Japanese heritage.

So watching it and with no understanding how the game goes, I just sat there staring at two white men fighting for a medal. Not knowing why and how points were awarded. Nevertheless, I stuck my eyes on the screen till a winner was declared.

OK, now picture this. Award ceremony, four medalists standing together waiting for their medals. As the whole world watches each of them receiving their medals, no smile was seen their faces. Grim faces receiving medals. They never spoke among themselves and I found it really weird. I wondered what were they thinking. Weren't they satisfied that they could leave Beijing with a medal?

I don't know the answer but shouldn't they be mingling among themselves and shaking hands, sending well wishes to each other? No, they just stood there like robots. Somehow I thought I knew the answer to the grim faces. Afterall, the silver and bronze medalists were from Azerbaijan, Kyrgyzstan and Kazakhstan and guess what, they were all from the former Russian Empire. As in history textbooks, these countries formed only when the Russian Empire dissolved and guess who won the Gold? You guessed it right.

Kia Hiang Restaurant ... my grandma's birthday.

To celebrate my grandma's birthday, we decided to do something really different this time. Besides the normal 10-course meal, we decided to do karaoke too.

At the beginning, everyone seemed to shy away from the microphone but after some warming up, two microphones were not enough. Kudos to grandma for being able to sing along. Never imagined that she would ever pick up a microphone and dance with us all. They even called her 'Coco Yeung'. As to why Coco, I have no idea.

Have a peep at the photos below and see how we enjoyed the session.

Happy 43rd Birthday Singapore ...

Once again Marina Bay lit up with fireworks on August 9. If I am not wrong, this is the second time the National Day Parade is held on the world's largest floating platform.

It can be said that the National Day Parade is similar every year but as a Singaporean, its this day that really strengthens our affection for this beloved country. Its this place we call home despite how far you wonder to work, be it Australia, Europe or India.

Despite the rain, most people stayed on to watch the parade. It was reported in the papers that the last time it ever rained during a parade was 40 years ago. My, can you imagine Singapore being this young once.

As time passes, villages have transformed into skyscrapers and who else can we thank but our forefathers who did so much for this country.

Being a supporter of Lee Kuan Yew and team, I always wonder how it would be for Singapore. If it isn't for him, do you really think we would have our 43rd National Day.

43 years ago, this country was kicked out of the Malayan Peninsula. It wasn't a fight for independence but happens to be more of a disposal by Malaysia.

Nevetheless, we made it through and who else can we thank but our present Minister Mentor Lee Kuan Yew and the People's Action Party.

It is him who allowed us our 43rd National Day, it is also him that showed us the way. Without him, we might just be nothing and only a small dot on the world map but today, we are still Singapore, a nation strong and free.

Let's strive together and believe we can bring our progress further.

Happy Birthday Singapore.

Another farewell ... at my new workplace.

I know its been a long time since I have come on to blog but forgive me as I have been rather busy at work - so much to catch up , so little time and with all these factored into the formula, it equates to stress.

Never mind the stress. It'll go away after awhile. After getting used to it.

I will not go into details about my first few days at the office but I thought I would like to highlight that for now, its a very warm family ast the office. Everyone laughed cried together. Oh, I meant it in a good way. The team was very close as I could tell it from Amanda's departure. The tears told the story.

I know the journey ahead is going to get tough but am sure with the team's support, I'll be cushioned as I am in safe hands.

I look forward to the new challenges ahead and hope to be able to fill the big shoes my predecessor left for me. She was really good in what she did and I have lots to learn from her but given a short time frame, I have to admit it was tough. Nevertheless, I'll be on my toes and learn as I go along.

Amanda, all the best in your future endeavours and to me, good luck!

Spending a day in Johor Bahru ...

The usual traffic jam lines both side of the causeway. Routine security checks and not so friendly immigration officers greet us at the borders. Tourist friendly? Think again.

I always find myself getting upset over unfriendly immigration officers. Afterall, these uniformed personnel are the first people to greet foreign visitors thus a smile shouldn't hurt.

Wrong subject huh? Should have changed it to something else but let's not kill joy.
Forget the hassle at immigration.

First destination was obviously food - bak kut teh. This corner store at Lion Hotel is a rather popular place for breakfast but for us, it was more a lunch as we reached Johor only at about noon. I have to say the soup was really delicious and we cannot find something similar in Singapore as those in Singapore are usually filled with a heavy pepper taste. Cost ? RM50 which equates to about S$21.

Its very normal for Singaporeans to comment that the meals or shopping in Malaysia is relatively cheap and its all thanks to the stronger Singapore dollar against a weaker Ringgit. This is one reason why Malaysia is still the place for Singaporeans to find a quick getaway holiday.

Shopping followed after the quick lunch and Sandy started on her expedition to buy shoes. I never understand what's with women and shoes. They love to buy lots of them but they always fail to realise that they can only wear one pair at a time. I guess she always wanted to be an Octopus. : )

I won't go into the details of what we bought and where we went as this will bore you further but I have to say the trip was fun and the seafood dinner was great. Look at the pictures and I am sure you will start drooling.

And yes, before I forget, a friendly reminder to all tourists who want to visit the Peninsula or any other country. Always remember to check your passports and make sure the immigration officer endorses your arrival and departure.

This evening, Sandy's passport wasn't stamped when we left. Can you imagine what will happen when she tries to enter again the next time? She might be prosecuted in court for leaving the country illegally as her passport didn't show proof of a legal exit.

All thanks to my sensitive ear that I realised something was amiss. I only heard the sound of 2 stampings despite handing over 3 foreign passports. Thus lesson learnt. Double checking never hurts but just one single error could lead to a disastrous outcome.

I somewhat saved my wife today. She owes me one now. : )

A day by the beach at Sentosa ...

Its one of those rare occassions where 3 brothers hang out by the beach, having lots of fun and of course, not forgetting red sunburns too. Sunburns are fun and they always bring me memories of my 'beach boy' days with my cousin Gregory. Whenever we went for a beach holiday, we'll head home looking really burnt - thanks to our hermit-crab hunting expedition.

Equipped with frisbee and a volley ball, four of us made our way to Palawan beach on Sentosa island. Weisheng told me recently that he likes the beach and I think I found the reason to this new addiction - babes.

Its surprising to know many Singaporean girls are now wearing two piece bikinis. I start to wander if its a liberal mindset or fashion sense.

During my secondary school days, I often visited Sentosa with girlfriends , in other words, female friends. I don't remember them wearing bikinis but instead they don swim suits.

What's funnier is they tend to wear the swim suits inside and on the outside, they wear t-shirts and shorts. All efforts to cover as much flesh as possible was the right thing then but now, revealing as much flesh is likely the 'in-thing' when visiting the beach.

I often ask Sandy to get herself a set of bikinis too but she refuses. Why? She's still from the old-school.

Ok, back to the fun we had on Sentosa. We started off with a volleyball
game between us. Weisheng and Junsheng were obviously in one team (they don't really have good ball sense yet. Still developing I guess - so I thought ) while me and only me on the other team. Yes, 1 versus 2.

I guess its age that's catching up. I aren't so agile anymore or likely I exercise so much lesser now that I can't keep up with their youth. What's worst is Sandy didn't even want to play volleyball so we stopped after half an hour so that we could join Sandy in the water.

In the water, we played 'Monkey' with the volleyball and frisbee too. Sadly, the frisbee decided to sink and we lost it - funny to know a three dollar China made frisbee wasn't made to float. So we bought another one which floated for S$5. S$2 more expensive than the sunken one.

We headed for lunch at one of the beach pubs which served pizza and beer. Junsheng also had his fill of Asahi beer. These guys know their stuff - Weisheng commented that Asahi was smoother than Tiger. Wow!

We lingered around a little longer before we headed for the shower. A lousy experience was awaiting us in the toilet but I won't comment it here. If you want to know more, ask me the next time you buy me a meal. ; )

On the whole, it was a fun outing with my two brothers and of course, not forgetting my wife too. She took leave from work so that she could join me in getting burnt from the sun. I look forward to the next outing and hopefully this time we can have the whole family together. It'll be a really fun experience having a picnic by the beach.

Wake boarding at East Coast ...

Just two years ago, some smart fella decided to re-develop an unused lagoon at East Coast Park for a new water sport called cable skiing.

This is supposedly to be the first in Southeast Asia but as of today, am not sure if the status still stays the same.

Sandy and I would like to try it sometime but we are afraid we'll be clowns in the water without being able to lift ourselves up. Perhaps we should try it next week since Sandy and I won't be at work next monday.

If we never try,we'll never know right?

An active day ...

Its been a long time since I took my Marin bicycle for a ride and this time it was quite a distance that I covered and I have to say that I managed to complete a trip to Orchard and back, all in 4 hours without difficuly except for poor road conditions around Kallang.

The weather was a little cloudy but thankfully there wasn't any rain. I guess its better than under the blazing sun.

I managed to find a place to park my bicycle and was really glad to see my bike still there after 2 hours away from it. I would bleed tears if it was gone as this Marin bike was a gift from my parents when I was 16. I guess brand matters. ; )

Along the way back, I managed to stop for some photo taking with the help of my Omnia phone. I hope the pictures won't disappoint me as afterall, its supposed to be a 5 mega pixel camera.

I am considering doing another trip toward Tampines one of this days but let's see how the weather treats me first.

Will update more if I ever do that.

For now, enjoy some of these photos. Haha.

Test from Omnia

Just bought an Omnia thus trying to see if all works well.

The song for Sandy ... from the wedding party.

Finally we have received the full video of the wedding song I wrote for Sandy. Take a listen and laugh along. I know its funny. ; )

The lyrics can be found in my previous blog if you want to sing along. Haha.

My Wedding at Sentosa's Amara Sanctuary ...

7 June 2008 will be a day in my life that I'll never forget. If I ever do, something must be terribly wrong.

This post is to acknowledge the many efforts put in by the guys at Amara Sanctuary.

Despite the heavy rain that poured on us that day, the team at Amara Sanctuary went all out to shelter our guests from the Grand Ballroom to the Glass Pavilion and back. No complaints or grumpy staff. They delivered their services well.

I wasn't sure how many staff they activated to assist with holding umbrellas but it was all compliments and praises for the team at Amara Sanctuary. Kudos to Irene and team for making the wedding a happy event for us.

The buffet lunch also received positive feedback with great hospitality provided by the banquet staff. Excellent service.

Everything went well except for one - the many ants that turned up at our bridal suite. What to do? Its a jungle out there. ; )

Hey, fellas from Amara, if you are reading this, perhaps another complimentary night for us at room 768. ; )

Bowie and her Turkish ice cream ...

This video was taken in January this year when Bowie visited Singapore.

Am testing this video blogging to see if it works well. If you see this, the post is successful as I sent it directly from my mobile. Technology really transforms lives.

Luis Yu ...a new member ...

Look out for the new champion. He's a likely winner when it comes to 'Deiju'.

Memories of a strong friendship ...

It has been quite sometime since the Happy Six came out together for a round of drinks. As you know, Lance and Monica are now parents thus lesser time spent with buddies like me - a change to baby sitting Luis.

I remember how they used to be carefree and always attending our drinking sessions and stayovers. Those times were memorable. During dinner today, we reminisced about those good old days where we played hide and seek and getting highly intoxicated on Saturday nights.

Things have taken a drastic change now but the friendship stays the same. Only now more planning is required compared to previous outings we had.

Plans of going for a night stay in Bintan or Johor during August is being finalized. It has been one of our goals to visit Lance's hometown for seafood but it never realised due to busy schedules. We seem to be serious about this and we
Know it will happen soon.

Whatever it is, in short, this bond we have together will stay strong always and even if a new member joins the family, its still going to be a crazy outing for Mun, Clara, Lance ,Monica and us of course not forgetting Beatrice who often AWOLs.

Oh Sandy .. Oh Sandy .. Oh Sandy ...

Many friends have been asking for the lyrics of the song I wrote for Sandy. I'll try uploading the music too but surely not the vocals as I haven't invested in a recording microphone yet. ; )

A song for you – by Mark Chong

When I look into your eyes
I can see the smile
It’s filled with joy
Happiness and lots of love
I wouldn’t be here today
If it weren’t for you
I would be somewhere else
Still looking around
For love
Perhaps for you

So here I am with you
We’ve said ‘I do’
Whatever lies ahead
I know we’ll get through
So I take this chance
To sing you this song
For you I’m sure
Cause I love you
Oh sandy
Yes I do

We’ll travel the world
We’ll climb all mountains
We’ll sing this song
And let it live on
As we grow
In age together

We’ll teach our children
To sing our song
We’ll let them sing
And let them carry on
So they’ll know
How much I love you

We’ll learn and play
We’ll do things together
We’ll cherish our love
We won’t let it end
Like this song I am going to play for you ….

让晚风轻轻吹过
伴送着清幽花香像是在祝福你我
让晚星轻轻闪过
闪出你每个希冀如浪花快要沾湿我
命运就算颠沛流离
命运就算曲折离奇
命运就算恐吓着你做人没趣味
别流泪心酸更不应舍弃
我愿能一生永远陪伴你
命运就算颠沛流离
命运就算曲折离奇
命运就算恐吓着你做人没趣味
别流泪心酸更不应舍弃
我愿能一生永远陪伴你

We’ll travel the world
We’ll climb all mountains
We’ll sing this song
As we grow
In age together

We’ll teach our children
To sing our song
We’ll let them sing
And let them carry on
So they’ll know
How much I love you

My wedding photos ... bits of it.

Just thought I'll share some photos of our lovely wedding and a photo of a post-wedding party which saw the HK team knocked out by the heaps of alcohol available at Keppel Club. I will try to upload more photos once Sandy finds the time. ; )

Time flies pass really quickly. It has been more than a month since we had our wedding at the Amara Sanctuary and its been two weeks after our honeymoon in Japan. I have to admit the honeymoon was really enjoyable. I enjoyed every minute of it despite the numerous shopping forced upon me. You can check out the link below to see more honeymoon photos.

Please stay patient with me as we upload the wedding photos and the post-wedding party that looked so much like a gambling event but instead of money, alcohol became the stakes instead.

http://www.kodakgallery.com/I.jsp?c=ard6v2w9.7l1accv1&x=0&y=-2n0rpu&localeid=en_US

Back in blog world ...

Its been two weeks since we've returned from our unforgetable honeymoon in Japan yet I've not updated the blog. Guess what? I caught a rather nasty flu just few days after returning home.

While I am slowly recovering from the bad fever, aches and cough, Sandy also attracted the bug. Its her third day suffering. Let's hope hers won't last as long as mine but am sure her immune system is stronger than mine. Am always known to be the weaker one when it comes to health issues.

Once the bug is completely wiped out from my system, I'll be going for a thorough health check. This was something I promised my wife to do. Better be safe than sorry. :)

Not to worry too much, its just one of those routine checks which I haven't done for a long time. Its a good time to reveal the level of my bad cholestrol. It won't be surprising to know its on ridiculously bad levels especially with me being a glutton for fine yet unhealthy food. I guess I really live to eat.

I read somewhere that if we all chose to eat food we didn't like, there wouldn't be so many health issues around. Its only the food that we really love, that's where the danger lies. Perhaps eating in moderation can do some help as well as placing an exercise regime together will improve our health.

So delay no more, cycle, swim or simply walk up a flight of steps, that'll keep us in shape at least for a while longer.

Last night in Japan ...

All good things come to an end just like our honeymoon in Japan.

 

I always thought two weeks for a honeymoon is too long but seriously, its still too short especially when the destination is Japan. There is just too many things to see and do here.

 

Thankfully, we managed to eat lots of Japanese delicacies such as the puffer fish sashimi, whale sashimi and lots of other delicious dishes. We also managed to drink the different sakes ( rice wine ) , various brands of Japanese beer not found in Singapore and best of all, we got to make some friends as we visted the different cities.

 

The company we had with buddy Mun and Clara totally made the trip different and I hope they too feel the same about our companion.We laughed and had lots of fun throughout and if it was only Sandy and myself, it could have been boring. Oops. ; )

 

Anyway, I will upload the photos later on when I am back in Singapore and will try to give a more detailed experience in my next blogs.

 

 

Hotspring in Hokkaido ...

I wasn`t able to update my blog for the past few days as I was in retreat mode in the mountains of Hokkaido, enjoying the weather as well as the hotspring made available by mother nature.

 

It was surprising to know that remote parts of Japan do not provide internet access to guests. I always thought this was the most advanced country in Asia.

 

Today is my second day in Sapporo, another city town in Hokkaido. We took a long drive between towns and thanks to the GPS provided in the car, it made finding places so much easier.

 

The evening before scared me a little as we drove up the mountains while the sun was about to set, the roads were winding and we were above the clouds which made the road a little less visible. We had to go slow and I was pretty sure everyone in the car was a little tense as we slowly climbed up and down the narrow and winding road. I too was a little scared when suddenly you find your car in the midst of fog and visibility was really low at some parts. Falling of the cliff surely wasn`t going to be anything funny.

 

Will try to update the blog more often now but to every one back home, don`t worry. We are all safe despite the numerous tremors thats shaking Japan.



 

Tokyo - Day 3

We practically spent the whole day shopping rather than sight seeing. We skipped the Imperial Palace and the numerous Shinto shrines but never ever intended to miss any malls but that's impossible.There are just too many malls in Tokyo. Believe it or not, we haven't even covered the shopping area within our hotel's vicinity.

We managed to visit a food court similar to that in Singapore at Venusfort but interesting to know there were only four stalls - all Japanese stalls.

For dinner,we managed to find a Yakitori bar at Ropongi but only after plenty of walking from Tokyo Tower. In short, I walked too much and what's worst in a new pair of shoes didn't make things easier.

Supper at a push cart store that sold 'yong tau foo' was interesting . I'll upload the photos once am back home so you can see what I meant by road side stall. :)

We encountered many stumbling drunkards along the way and trust me, it was hilarious seeing these guys lying on the road and best, making their way into the train - drunk.

Yakuza - Japanese mafia were also spotted in Shinjuku last night as we walked around the red light district. My, they still wear clogs here. Shall update you more again later.

Earthquake in Japan

Tremors woke us up this morning at about 0845 hrs local time. The bed was shaking violently and we all thought we were dreaming thus I turned on the news to find out an earthquake indeed hit some part of Japan.

Till now we have no idea where exactly was hit as the news here are in Japanese without any English subtitles etc. This is something really interesting about the country - minimal English. Even when ordering food we do find it difficult but thankfully all of us are adventurous with food.

Tokyo- Day 2 ...

Finally we managed to visit a sushi bar / restaurant in Tokyo after numerous attempts.

 

You must wonder whats with the attempts. Whenever we tried entering a sushi bar, we were always told to leave however, with a stroke of luck, we managed to enjoy the nice delicacy in a typical sushi counter. Just imagine, one sushi master and only 8 customers seated just across the counter, laughing and enjoying the soccer match being played.

 

We made some friends there at the sushi restaurant and I have to say the guys there were really warmth, especially Yoshimasa and the mother of the chef. This meal we had will surely be one of the sweetest memories we`ll have of Tokyo. Of course, we`ll still be　looking for more of such encounters.

 

As usual, its shopping paradise as Mun and I have to carry a heavy load of shopping bags from one place to another. I really wanted to much to just give up and hail a cab but taxis here are really expensive.

 

I`ll update more later on as the time for this internet station is running out. Today, we`ll be visiting the Imperial Palaca as well as more shopping. My, the funds are drying up really quick .... scary to think even I succumbed to the temptations of shopping here.

 

As for meals, we`ll be on budget the next two days before we head to Hokkaido as we have spent close to S$700 the past two days but its all worth it.

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Tokyo .. a town of sinful shopping

We landed safely at Narita airport yesterday morning and immediately started on our shopping frenzy.

 

I just cannot believe that I too will be enjoying the retail therapy. I in fact bought some stuff - one pair of cheap jeans and an X-Japan key chain.

 

Will update again soon as the time　is running out on this computer. 100 yen for 10 minutes.

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Japan here I come ...

Time hasn't really been on my side to allow me to write about my wedding however I promise that will happen when I come back from my honeymoon trip.

 

As I post this blog, its raining out there on the tarmac while the A380 is waiting for us to board. This is going to be exciting. A rare chance to catch a glimpse and even ride the A380 belonging to Singapore Airlines,

 

More details to follow when I find my next internet station.

 

 

Its time ...

In a matter of hours, I'll be her groom and she'll be my bride. After more than 10 years of staying close together and sharing life's challenges, we'll be pronounced man and wife at about 1145am (GMT + 8)on 7 June 2008.

Just 40 minutes away from the big day I have been waiting all my life, I start to reflect on how our relationship bloomed. 10 years is not a short period of time and given a chance, I wouldn't have allowed her to wait this long but nevertheless, the time has come that we come together as one.

I don't know how to really express the joy that's filling up inside me. Its surely an exciting ride ahead for us both as we engage in a new chapter of our lives. We walked together this far and I am sure we'll walk further, closer together.

I have written a song for Sandy which I'll share the lyrics in a later blog but for now, please wish us a blissful marriage and endless years of happiness together.

I will cherish every moment of tomorrow and lock them in my memory. Every smell, every sound and every laughter will be recorded and never forgotten, like this love I have found with Sandy ...

The time has come , the time we have all been looking forward to - 7 June 2008.

Solemnisation at Amara Sanctuary, Sentosa ...

In 7 days, Sandy and I will say the famous ' I Do ' at the Amara Sanctuary Resort on Sentosa, a rather newly opened hotel in the island.

I had many friends who complained to me about the distance of Sentosa but I have assured them that its easily accessible now. Its no longer the Sentosa that was 15 years back whereby the only transport is either by cable car or by a ferry ride that's about 10 minutes.

For you who haven't been there for ages, a bridge linking the two islands have been built quite a number of years back, allowing visitors to the island easy access.

I have included a photo of how the Glass Pavilion looks like so do not be alarmed by the relaxed and casual atmostphere. So if you decide to overdress, you'll probably find yourself being stared at.

My advise is a t-shirt and jeans will be sufficient and for ladies, bikini and jeans will surely catch lots of attention and draw the crowd away from Sandy so if that's what you want, go put on a bikini top. For me, don't be surprised if I appeared in shorts.

13 days to go ...

Sandy is finally going to be mine in 13 days. I wonder if she'll get used to being introduced as Mrs Chong. I believe it'll take some time to have that effect kicked in.

Its only 13 days more and I still feel that there are still many things undone and one of which is the purchase of a new bed. That's likely the first furniture we are ever going to buy together.

I haven't gotten my shoes, haven't collected my wine, haven't finalised the guests list and I haven't received the table arrangements too. Look at the amount on my 'to do list'. Its scary isn't it? So the next time you wish to throw a wedding bash, do consider these things carefully. ; )

But seriously, I aren't regretting throwing this big party of ours. Afterall its a once in a lifetime affair and its always nice to celebrate it with close family and friends.

I guess to make this event a successful one, I have many people to thank. I'll be updating my blog at 'kramfriends' so that I can put my thank-yous to each and everyone who has played a significant role in my life as well as contributed to my wedding in any way big or small. So keep a lookout. However, I have to tell you that its not going to be that quick as right now, I still have lots undone. Perhaps it'll be completed by September thereabouts.

Enough said, I shall come back to update you more about the wedding. Somehow or rather, I do feel I have neglected this blog but it won't be for long until I start contributing to it like how I used to.

Anxiety .. stress ...

All these years I thought I was managing my life well but never did I realise I would succumb to anxiety due to high stress levels.

Guess its a mixture of work as well as the wedding preparations which are long overdue.

Haven't been myself lately and I start to ponder how my other friends managed to cope with nagging wives. Phew, they sure can nag till the neck falls off.

Glad mine is still intact with the body. ; )

Am taking some time this weekend to relax a little and sort out some of the outstanding chores which are pending and outstanding. See, tending to the chores would likely bring me more stress, so how to relax?

Frankly, maybe its right to say that I like to and want to handle things on my own. Its not about not trusting others to do it but more like trying not to burden others with my responsibilities. That's me. I tend to be responsible for what I do and what I cannot do. This is why and how I end up stressed.

There are plenty of things to do but not enough time, not enough hands and all at the same time, not wanting others to be stressed up over our issue.

Enough said, I guess I am still looking forward to my big day despite the number of chores I am about to face. Afterall, its our day. Perhaps, am just lazy or is it something else ....?

7 June 2008 ...

Times flies really quickly. In just one month, Sandy and I will be married.

Its been a long walk together, going through many squabbles and arguments but we are still one. One heart, one big love.

Wedding invitations are on the way out to relatives and friends. Did you get yours? If not, be patient. Oh, unless you are the group coming from Hong Kong. ; )

Seriously, Sandy and I didn't do much planning for this big day. Its not going to be fanciful. Its just a party for us all, just like how friends get together at each other's homes. This is exactly the same, only that my 'living room' will be able to accommodate more than 200 guests.

Let's not expect too much from both of us. We'll mingle, we'll play and we'll cheer. That's the only reason why we are all coming together on 7 June 2008.

A little anxious over this big day but am certainly hoping 7 June 2008 will not pass me by quickly as I want to enjoy every minute, every hour and feel what's going on inside me. I am not going to rush. I'll just try to capture every moment I can with my bride Sandy and of course, everyone present.

Its a pity some friends cannot make it due to various reasons. Work, health etc. But all have sent me well wishes. Everyone of them have.

I tried visualizing myself in clothes I am to wear on that day. I see myself walking around, clowning around and taking pictures. I am who I am even on that day so forgive me for my jokes and funny acts.

Right now I am still thinking if I should perform on that day. If I should play the piano at all. See, few months back I performed and my best friend's wedding and I realised noone was listening, no one paid attention and I am really afraid of that as I didn't want to be any other lounge piano player. OK, excuses and more excuses.

I shall stop here and not say anything more. Let whatever is going to happen on that be a surprise for you and me so don't try to pry open this golden mouth of mine. It'll stay shut.

So in 30 days, I'll be the groom and Sandy my bride. In 30 days, I'll be a grandfather and she'll be a grandmother. Sweet and nice isn't it?

My Music's online ...

I have finally uploaded my first piece of music - Love Pain.

Am a little excited about it yet a little afraid the music isn't at all that wonderful. Hearing some comments from you will surely be useful and perhaps, help me make better music next time.

I do have some other compositions which I'll share with you next time and hopefully, they'll be nicer than this trial song I have decided to put up with Imeem.com.

Maybe, it'll also be useful if you know any other cool sites where I can upload my songs for easy download.

Anyway, am just so glad I managed to put this up as I know some friends are waiting to hear my music but I haven't had the time to polish and refine those melodies just yet. And yes, as I may not be the best person to write lyrics, perhaps if you know someone who is interested, you can drop me a line too.

Enjoy the music and if its too yucky, its fine. Just tell me so I can improve.

Thanks in advance. : )

Baby Cot ...

At work today, I was wondering at what age do children switch from a baby
cot to a bed. See, my job requires a little bit of paternal instincts and
maybe that particular instinct requires some time to train and nurture.

So what exactly is a baby cot? That I know for sure. It looks exactly like
a cage. Now, if you are a pet lover and have visited a pet shop at least
once in your life, you'll likely be able to visualise a puppy running
around in limited space because it's fenced up by a perimeter of plastic
and metallic fences. Now, imagine that you'll bend over to pick up the
puppy with your hands. Ta-da, that's exactly how a baby cot looks like if
you switched the puppy to a baby. Am I making sense here? Maybe not.

Forget the baby cot and the puppy fence. ; )

Another farewell ...

Pricoa has lost an effective manager and a good friend.

Vivian Lee served her last day at the office yesterday after giving a 2
month notice. Its been a short work stint with Vivian whom I report to but
she's one cool boss who works with a heart and brings lots of cheer and
laughter to the team here.

This morning as I stepped into the office, I peeped into the room only to
find an empty desk with a chair neatly parked. No more morning greetings,
no more poking fun at one another.

The atmostphere in the office has changed drastically after her departure.
Perhaps what she said is correct. Give it some time and everything else
will be normal. So what's normal at a work place? Just minding your own
business and not interacting with fellow colleagues. Frankly, the group
here I work with are a bunch of very happy people and we get along really
well.

Vivian, always approachable and nice to her subordinates makes us laugh all
the time with her own laughter. So its true that laughter is the best
medicine and its as contagious as yawning. I guess Vivian and I both have a
similar personality. We are very accommodating and always say 'yes' and
that's one very big reason why she has left. She took too much upon
herself. I guess she's a very good example to what I don't want to be.
Always giving in to others and taking more responsibility every day and
after a long period of time, you just burst and shouting out loud on how
miserable you are.

Oops. Am I sending the wrong signal to my colleagues who might be reading
this. No, I aren't complaining. Am just discussing about personality and
how heroes always die young. Heroes take the world's burden on them and
that's too much thus they fumble and die. I aren't no hero. And don't think
I'll be anyway. ; )

As for Vivian, she'll always be mother hen to the many children she has here.
We'll miss her heaps and who knows, our paths might cross again some time,
some day.

Food on bus ...

In Singapore, there is a certain fruit which is a no-no when boarding a bus. And that's the durian.

We all know it has a very strong smell and if you don't eat this fruit, chances are you won't like the smell of it too.

Seated on the bus now, I could smell something else. I smell food. Cooked food to be exact. Carrot cake or fried noodles but its stinking the bus and I know for sure this smell is going to linger in my nose for awhile.

It isn't exactly smelly. It just causes the bus to smell and that's exactly what happens when durian is brought on a public transport.

So my point is this. If cooked food smells and eventually leaves the same effects just as a durian does, so why can't durian be allowed?

Let truth be told. Its not the smell that the bus operators are afraid of, they are merely afraid of the thorny fruit which could be used as a deadly weapon especially after two months failing to re-capture JI terrorist Mas Selamat.

Right. Just kidding.

Song Writing ...

I happen to chance upon a blog / forum on song writing. Songcraft seems to be a platform for aspiring song writers to exchange and talk about their works and what's best is they'll have a get-together on Friday at Fort Canning Park.

I am trying to squeeze some time to join the group of people behind Songcraft and hopefully pick up some tips from the people there. I am not too sure if I will be able to make it as you know my wedding is round the corner and there are still lots of things not done yet.

Its inspiring to know there are people out there who share the same interest in wanting to write a musical and its comforting to know that they are doing what they can in placing some effort to make that dream come true. Perhaps I should start making contacts there and who knows, a collaboration might make things a little easier to make that dream a reality.

Its two months away ...

Our wedding is drawing closer and we are talking about 60 days away. As usual, nothing much done yet on our end. Well, afterall its going to be a casual get together with family and friends.

So what's outstandng?My.We have a long list of 'to-dos' to put in place. My clothes, my songs, the guest lists and the purchasing of wine as well as program for the day.

I have been telling friends to come dressed casually as I do not want to overdress myself. If I could, I would love to wear denim jeans on that so you know what to do.Come in your pyjamas. Sandy is unlikely to allow me to dress casual but let's see what I can do to convince her.

The day's program will kick off at 530am with a Chinese tradition of hair combing. An hour later, gate crash at Sandy's place will take place to escort the bride out of her home and to my parents' place. I have a feeling that there will be lots of funny games as we try to break in to snatch the bride and I will have to count on my section of six brothers to be present for the tortures.

Just for you to know, the following are my brothers - Weisheng, Junsheng, Hanwen, Jiaping, Edwin and Tsu Jungg. These guys will represent me in any games that is to be played. Afterall, I am the groom and I shouldn't be involved in being mocked at.

The line-up on the other side of the gate will be Clara, Louisa, Shio Cheng and Ellen. Four ladies versus six gentlemen. What do you think will be the result? :) No comments here.

So after all the home visits, we'll set off to Amara Sanctuary where the solemnization and lunch buffet will take place. There, its going to be fun, fun and more fun as that's where Sandy and I will greet the many guests attending the wedding lunch.

During lunch, we'll want to mingle around as much as possible. Afterall, the guests are here for us thus we'll take as much time to interact as possible. In the midst of lunch, we'll also do our tea ceremony which could take up an hour as we do have many relatives. :)

Once all is over, Sandy and I plan to just stay in the room and stay sober as we know we'll be tired after all the activities.Its also to escape a bunch of guests who carry thoughts of making us drunk. Looks like I have to send some hitmen to take them out first by making them drunk instead. So who can I count on I wonder as all of them seem likely to be defectors and will not pledge loyalty on that day.

Perhaps on that day,I shall declare alcohol free. :) Its a sacred day afterall. Yes, that's what am going to do. The best of all tactics is to retreat and retreat I shall.

Behind bars ...

Just met up with a friend recently who was thrown behind bars after getting caught for selling contraband cigarettes. I wasn't at all surprised this has happened to him as from young, he was exposed to many undesirable activities.

He wasn't someone who could study well and likely mixed with people from the secret societies. He visited back alley gambling dens which often resulted him to seeking illegals loans from syndicates to fire his bad habits - gambling.

This chap has got all the courage to do all the weird things which no normal person would do. He very often leaves Singapore to hide away from creditors seeking him and I would believe he would have had bad incidents which ended with blood and bruises.

Now that he has come out of jail, I hope he will be able to change his life and his ways. I am sure the period of 6 months behind bars would have allowed him to reflect on his wrong doings and bring him back on track to a clean world.

This will be a good time for me to see if the Yellow Ribbon project set up by the government would really help ex-convicts move on with life. Its sad to know that many ex-convicts out there find difficulty in settling down and finding a job. I am sure a handful of them do find the correct path but a bigger percentage of them might end up back there again as the society rejects them each time they try to lead a normal life.

To be continued ..... As my bus ride ends soon.Visit again should you want to read about life in prison all from the eyes of someone who's been there.

Leslie Cheung ... a fallen star on April Fool's

Five years ago on this very day, Leslie Cheung ended his life by plunging down The Oriental hotel in Hong Kong. As rumours started spreading, everyone thought of it as an April Fool's joke but not until the late night news confirmed the incident. Leslie indeed took his own life.

In Hong Kong, fans of Leslie are more likely to be mourning than pulling pranks today. Afterall, a hero of canto pop needs to be remembered on this very day.

I believe most part of the world with a Chinese community, some sort of tribute will be made in memory of the boyish looking star. Popular for both his love songs as well as movies, this chap will surely be remembered fondly for his contributions to the Hong Kong music and film industry.

Of all the songs he has, my favourite would still be 'Yau Shui Gong Ming'. What's yours? I wouldn't really say that I grew up hearing his songs. I didn't. It was only this particular song that had an impact on me. His other songs were indeed good but this seemed more meaningful and relates to my life somehow.

Never mind the song's relation to my life and how it impacted me but let's take time off today to at least listen to one of his songs. Perhaps by tuning in to your local Mandarin or Cantonese radio station, you will likely hear Leslie's songs again.

St James Powerhouse - Dragonfly

On Saturday evening, we visited Dragonfly for a drinking and dancing session. As usual, it was with Hanwen and Clara and obviously pregnant Monica and Lance weren't there.Afterall it wasn't a healthy activity.Loud music and alcohol just don't appeal to the two of them.

We were at Dragonfly for a mission - to finish the Hennesy bottle which I opened two months back but it seemed more to that single bottle as at the end of the night we had three bottles for just the four of us. Now you can guess who got intoxicated. Surely not me. :)

It was a fun filled night and we all agreed we should do this sort of outing once in awhile. It helped loosen some muscles and reduced stress. What's best was we made new friends and it was a rather heart warming encounter.Perhaps this is what people call fate.

We got to know two couples, Tan Bian and Jackson together with their wives. I guess they are in their late thirties. Didn't ask much as I didn't want to intrude into their personal details and looking like a busybody.

What's really cool was that Jackson's wife was expecting and the baby's to be due within two weeks. Interesting isn't it how a pregnant lady takes time to even enjoy an outing to a dance club with loud music.

Anyway, we got along well and have gotten each other's contact and I believe that night surely wouldn't be the last time I'll see them.Afterall, there was some sort of affection I felt for them or maybe, am just a person who treasures friendship and love making friends.

What's best was that they told me we reminded them of their younger days and that's likely what sparked it all.They were once like us - party animals. And now, they are proud parents.Ten years down the road, we'll likely experience the same thing as we see the next generation party and hopefully, people then would be as friendly.

warm regards,
Mark Chong

Singapore River's Boat Quay ...

Seated along the Singapore River,just beneath the towering buildings of Republic Plaza, I find myself surrounded by many local landmarks. Fullerton, Parliament, Asian Civilization Musuem, Supreme Court, Raffles City and many other buildings.

The Singapore River, a popular strip mainly used by early merchants to transport goods in and out of Singapore has changed tremendously over the years.What used to be the veins of the town that carried food has now become a river where tourists enjoy their sight seeing. Seated in sampans, these money spending tourists pay a decent amount to catch a glimpse of the city lights that line the shores as they ride across the tideless river.

You must wonder why am seated here alone. Looking around me, everyone else has got company except me. Well, its just a night that went wrong. I shouldn't be here alone at least. Don't get me wrong. I wasn't stood up nor did I make any plans to meet. Correction. I tried making plans to meet my best friend but once again, he turned cold. Menopause syndromes? :)

Am not complaining much here because am just enjoying the scenery made available. I never would have enjoyed the view here any other day because I would just take the sight for granted. Tonight, it looked different. Cause I am alone.

Its not always a bad thing to be alone sometimes because you take time to reflect about life,family, friends, work and importantly the future. I read some phrase that went ' Yesterday's a memory, today's a present whilst tomorrow is a mystery'. Its true. Today is indeed God's gift to us, thus its called the present and we should enjoy it as much as we can.

Am so tempted to walk to the pubs along Boat Quay to drown my thirst now but due to having taken some cold pills, I don't wish to manage an upset body system with alcohol.

Sometimes I think about life and count the things that I have and don't have. Practically I have everything except kids and my own house but that's only a matter of time. What am measuring is my quality of life that surrounds me. Do I have the best of friends? I don't know how to put it. To be blunt, do I have that many friends.

Seriously, I keep in touch with only a handfull of them and I think that's more than enough to last a life time. Along life's journey, am sure I would pick more friendships but am really contented with what am given now. Sometimes too many friends would mean lots of entertaining. Agree?

Once again, knowing that I cannot withstand being alone for so long, my menopause friend just called. Symptoms cleared I think. Haha. Can't blame him, work and study never mix well. They don't balance especially when exam is a few days away but heck, I can't finish this blog because he has called and asked me to walk over.

So long... And thank you for the company Singapore River.

Influenza hits Singapore ...

For the past week I have been fighting off a bug that hit my body system really hard and what's worst is that my anti-bodies are still engaged a war to ward off the evil invaders.

Phew. Sounds like some scene from some war movie starring virus and bugs. Can't imagine them going out in battalions with arms in hand, shooting at enemies and throwing hand grenades.

Just recently, I realised my immune system has weakened perhaps due to a polluted environment and a lack of exercise and alcohol. Yes, its been quite sometime since I kicked a soccer ball and I guess its time to hit back to the gym and soccer court too. Oh, and to the pubs for happy hour too.

Besides being able to keep my immunity alive by exercising, I am able to trim those fats and look slim on my wedding day. Count me out on steel abs or a six-pack as I don't think Sandy will want me to look like Rain (or Bi),the Korean star and not my pet Jack Russell who shares the same name before the Korean star became famous. To differentiate them, mine is a bitch and she's cute.

Its good news that as the wedding approaches, Sandy religiously visits the gym and cut downs on her intake of food but at the same time, its something that worries me a little cause we never know what's going to happen right after the wedding. Will she put on so much weight that I will have a hard time sweeping her off her feet? Or in a very bad scenario, I have problems recognising her. ; (

Looks like I had better add more load to my weights' training when I visit the gym. Another 5 pounds of heavy metal on each arm should do the job, anything more will cause me a permanent back injury. That I am very sure but before that happens, I better stay good and rest my body so that the flu bug will disappear soonest. The breathing isn't smooth and its causing me to be really frustrated with the darn nose.

A new toy ...

It has been a really long time since I bought something for myself and this time, it came with quite a big price tag.

I got myself a piano keyboard just recently and guess what? Its no ordinary keyboard found in the toys section of a departmental store nor is it even found in a music school. This set I bought is good stuff and its used mostly in recording studio.

People know I buy things on impulse but this time, it took me lots of research and shopping around before I decided that M-Audio is the brand I am after. Afterall, its been endorsed by big name musicians and best of all, I bought it from a musician who's been there, done that.

I was always fond of the piano and its weird how I fell in love with it but I sure remember how I was forced to learn the instrument that could never be carried around. Maybe forced is too negative a word. Maybe because I was still young then and never liked attending classes. What to do? My peers were enjoying their Saturdays while I had to go class. Not fair huh?

Seriously, when I look back now, I regretted stopping classical piano cause only in the later years did I find out that classical piano leads me to all other playing styles but never mind, I aren't looking back cause I have my new toy to play with now.

I always had a wish to own a home studio. A room dedicated to sound machines with the objective of entertainment for me and my family. I'll like to have that room insulated with sound proofing and what's best, I can make my own music there and then. That's the capability of M-Audio.

Anyway, I managed to burn my first music single on cd. Its not polished yet but at least the project I have been waiting for so many years has finally taken a small little step. I always wanted to do this since the age of 16 and I thought as I grew older, I'll just drift away. Well, I nearly did but thankfully I have lots of support from Sandy and some other close mates.Not forgetting Dick Lee too.

I don't know if someday I'll ever have the opportunity to see my works enjoyed by others but who cares, its more of a leisure thing for me now and let's see how long this toy can entertain me. : )

For now, I would like to present you the song but am not able to share it online here cause I haven't found any filehosting servers yet. If you do know of any reliable and private ones, please let me know and I can upload it for your comments. However, please note that I am no professional and that I am only a beginner in this thus there will be lots to learn along the way but your frank comments will be appreciated.

That's all for now as I turn off the lights to embark on a journey of sweet dreams.

X-Japan returns ...

Just last night, I read about the return of my favourite band,X-Japan, which broke up in 1997.Following which, the death of guitarist, Hide, in 1998 made it even more impossible to have the band back in action.

Only after 10 years after the death of Hide, Yoshiki and Toshi, the leading members of the well known J-rock group decided a return to the Japanese music scene. Its great news to know they will be back on stage this month for a two-day concert which I believe many fans will be looking forward to it.

Its a pity my honeymoon didn't coincide with the schedule of their concert if not, I will be the happiest man as I have always dreamt of watching the group live on stage.This is also the reason why I decided on Japan to be the place to go for our honeymoon -shopping for X-Japan merchandise. :p

Seriously I have heaps of these merchandise and I cannot wait to have them displayed once Sandy and I get our own place, hopefully in the later part of the year.

Anyway, to have X-Japan on stage again allows me to have something to look for at HMV as nowadays, nothing interests me there. A pity isn't it?

And yes, I found the music workstation I want to buy so badly and hopefully by buying that, I can continue the journey of song writing as well as skipping the need to rent a piano for my wedding day.For family and friends attending the party, please don't expect an Elton John performance that afternoon.

12 weeks to go ...

Time is ticking and the day is coming closer yet quite a bit of things has not been arranged. What am I talking about? My wedding of course. Oops. OUR wedding it should be.

Despite attempting to keep the wedding as simple as possible, I still find that there are still lots to do.Our priority for that day is to be able to spend as much time and taking every opportunity to chat with our guests. That's what we really hope to fulfill that day.

So what are the things which are still pending? Photo montages, my clothes as well as the brothers' clothes, purchasing of wine, the customary 'equipments' and most importantly the invitation cards which will act as an entry pass into the southern island of Sentosa.

Many relatives and friends alike come up to me and ask the rationale behind the venue. Seriously, its just 'love at first sight'. We visited the Amara Sanctuary and we both liked the place. Yes, we understand its a little far but rest assured that its still accessible by road.

As we know Sentosa is associated with the sun and heat, we hope our guests can turn up in their casual wear. Denim wear is fine especially jeans. For those who seek more vanity, bikinis and swim shorts are welcome too. Just wear whatever you feel comfortable but don't you outdress me - the groom, as I will try to be as casual as possible so don't be surprised if I appeared in my bermudas. :)

So with 12 weeks to go, have you thought about the games we can play that afternoon? As we want it to be a fun gathering of family, relatives and friends, all possible laugh effective games are welcome for the day but only one request by the bride and groom - no drinking for the wedding couple that day as it will be considered a sacred week for them. :)

IT Show Singapore 2008

This morning,Sandy and I took some time to visit the IT show. Seriously, Sandy and I hardly take time to walk at such conventions, reason being its way too crowded and we have no business there cause both of us aren't IT geeks.

I kind of felt that the name given to this event-IT show was wrongly used or perhaps, my perception of an IT show didn't really matched what I saw at the Suntec convention hall. It was more of an IT sale where hardware and softwares alike were slashed to crazy prices.

I was kind of expecting more booths that unveiled new ideas, new designs and new technology thus Sandy and I were disappointed. It felt like we were walking at local IT mall Sim Lim Square. No difference at all.

We surely would have been better off if we stayed longer having our buffet breakfast at the hotel. What to do? We also thought by going early to the show would have given us more free space to walk around but we were wrong but nevertheless, we enjoyed each other's company.

By the pool ...

Am seated by the pool side of Fairmont hotel, enjoying the sun and
breeze as well as the whistles of the trees surrounding me.To clarify,
am still in Singapore, right in the city.

Sandy, Beatrice and I will stay here for a night. Nothing spectacular
but all just for a relaxing weekend. I am someone who enjoys the
swimming pool and of course, the sun too. Am sure you can tell that
from my fading tan color which am trying hard to restore.

Many times I'll just lie by the side and fall asleep with the soothing
sound of overflowing water of the swim pool. And yes, I often leave
out the all important sun block which can shun me from bad, wrinkled
skin but seriously, I dislike the smell and feel of it. Yucks.

Now, let's talk about the little ritual or process before one plunges
into the pool. First, you will be expected to shower yourself clean
before you jump in. I don't think anyone would like foreign particles
in the pool especially dead cells from those stinking foot. Haha.

Anyway, I always find myself having difficulty in entering a pool of
cold water. It freezes me. It'll take some time before the body gets
used to the temperature and the sad thing is once it has accustomed to
the temperature, its time to leave and that's another hell of a
process. Imagine the blowing wind on the surface of your skin while
your body is still wet. Phew. Cold.

Right, I guess instead of crapping so much on this, I should perhaps
just lie back, relax and enjoy the serenity within.:)

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http://hidekram.blogspot.com/

A Great Escape ...

For the past week, photos of Mas Selamat were splashed across the nation. At bus stops, shopping malls and even  through phones by MMS. Every effort was attempted to nab the terrorist who escaped security at a detention centre that was centrally located.

Many questions arise from this embarrassing episode.Just how did the region's most wanted terrorist get out of jail. Could it really be a one man act or did someone plan an 'inside' job that led to an apology from our Deputy Prime Minister Wong Kan Seng.

As a Singaporean, I never doubted the capability of our security force. Afterall, I live in a city of safe surroundings and never at any point did I feel that my security was compromised. I even told my overseas friends that our elite police force will likely catch the escapist within three days but I was wrong.

Its been a week since the massive manhunt of 2000 police officers combing the perimeter took place. Canine police and the army were also roped in to nail the wanted man but still, everything still seems a mystery.

I was joking to a friend that Mas could have flushed himself out of the detention centre by using the toilet bowl. Hilarious idea and I wonder if the police indeed searched our extended networks of sewage system. He could well be hiding in a pool of faecies but for how long can he last.

Security experts still insist that he has not left Singapore and will definitely get pinned especially after so many days without money or food. Again, this is only a speculation. He might be hiding somewhere comfortable and even landed himself in a neighboring country with plans to seek destruction.

 

Singaporeans surely feel embarrassed now as we know this surely did dent our pride especially when we are a nation that always strive for the best in whatever we do. I am sure we are now very popular for all the wrong reasons but looking on the bright side, its free advertisement without much effort from the Singapore Tourism Board. Let's just imagine the headlines on all the newspapers in the world - A Toilet Break in Singapore Led to the Escape of Asia's Most Dangerous Terrorist.

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http://hidekram.blogspot.com/

Pick those coins ...

There was one evening while waiting for Sandy, I took a walk at Borders trying to find a book to read and purchase but instead, something round and shiny caught my eye.

Lying on the floor with shimmering light reflecting from it, I realised it was a 5-cent coin. Many people walked passed and caught a glimpse of the fallen hero but noone wanted to adopt it.

The reason was clear. It was 5-cents and not a dollar. Can you remember the last time you picked up a coin on the street? Were you smiling and showing it off to your friends or parents as if it were a prized trophy you had just won. The innocence coupled with ignorance provided a sense of joy. Well, at least for me.

Like I said, that happened only when I was younger.
So why the change? I guess it lies pretty much on the value. What was valuable then seems so much different now. What 5-cents could bring us previously isn't going to lead us to any thing now. That's what inflation is about.

Perhaps for the next many generations from now, a 2-dollar note would also follow the fate of the 5-cent coin which I didn't pick up the other day. Its sad isn't it but maybe, that's what we call progress.

Not me ...

In times of anger, I frown.

Who wants to be upset?

Not me.

In times of misery, I frown.

Who wants to be troubled?

Not me.

In times of disappointment, I frown.

Who wants to be let down?

Not me.

In times of loneliness, I frown.

Who wants to be alone?

Not me.

In times of vengeance, I frown.

Who wants to inflict hurt?

Not me.

Laugh or cry, happy or sad?

You make the choice.

Not me.

Father vs Mother

It started with a cry

Followed by tears of joy



A gift made of love

A baby boy



After months of pregnancy

Its time to face the worries



A new chapter has begun

Of parenthood and infancy



A father can’t help but think

If his boy would grow up in just one blink



He wasn’t sure if he could afford the school fees

Or would his boy even excel in his studies



In the eyes of a mother

It was entirely different



Nothing of which a father worried

Was of any importance



She chooses not to worry about things that’s uncertain

Only the health of her precious boy was of grave concern

Turning 29 ...

Birthday parties and loads of mysterious presents are a thing of my past. As another year will be added to my age once the hour hand touches 12 midnight, nothing much exciting is going to happen this year. Maybe because am really getting older.

Surely its something to be proud of as each year brings an insight on wisdom of sorts. Don't we often hear that the older one gets, the wiser one becomes. Agree? I am indeed wiser.

I guess over the years, I gained lots of opportunities to learn different aspects of life - about love, about life and best of all about goals and dreams.

As each minute brings me closer to being officially 29, I ask myself numerous questions how I would be 3, 5 and 10 years from now. Would I be satisfied and truly happy with my progress in career, family relations and importantly health.

I guess I cannot complain much right now as I probably already have what I need now, everything except the house - my own home which I really hope to have before the year ends.

Career wise, am doing fine but of course, everything can be better.That's greed. I guess one becomes satisfied only when one knows when to stop wanting and for me, that's not so soon thus dreams and goals still live inside me while I'll try ways and means to bring these dreams and goals that I speak of to life.

So before I blow out any candles tomorrow, I have to think carefully what to wish for. World peace and pollution free will surely not be on the wishlist but perhaps, something closer to the heart.Yes, that's the thing I will wish for and may the dream come true soon.

So its happy birthday to me ..... And may my wishes come true on this special as well as every other day in my life.

May everyday be filled with lots of happiness for me, my loved ones, family and friends. Its only being happy that's truly the essence of a fruitful and cherished life.

See, words of wisdom. :)

Video shots ...

The convenience of having a camera phone with video capabilities sort of got me into a little bit of trouble recently. Forget Edison and Gillian please, I aren't talking about those.

Perhaps its my bad that I didn't ask permission to place the video up on youtube but well, it wasn't any offensive, nude or rude video. It was merely a video that had a congratulatory message to me on my upcoming wedding and best of it, it was from a friend.

I guess I have to respect the wishes of the cast who starred in the short video but from my point of view, I wouldn't have placed it up if I weren't proud to have a friend like you.

Never mind, its taken off so let it be ... I am sure I can find a replacement for another congratulatory video from other friends. Right guys?

Busy weeks ...

Its been quite some time since I entered my thoughts and life on this online journal. What to do ? I have been busy with my social life and as well as help out at my best friend's wedding.

I have so many thoughts that I would like to share with everyone but let's take it on one at a time.

Over the weekend, I didn't get to do much except for helping out at Hanwen's wedding. My. I'll be lying if I said it wasn't tiring. It sure was. The fact that the night before his wedding, I didn't even catch a minute of sleep was too much for me.

For some of you who already know, I was the emcee for the wedding dinner as well as the joker who croaked as I played out a tune or two on the ivory keys of a grand piano. I felt really embarrassed for playing some wrong chords as well as singing a little out of tune but it doesn't matter, I did it all for a cause and that cause surely wasn't about being a star that night. There were only two stars there and then - the couple, Hanwen and Clara.

I had to admit I wasn't very cool playing the piano as its my first time playing alone and in the midst of people whom most I didn't know. 400 of them but I have to say, I think I did a good job. Not many have the guts I had. ; ) By the way, this isn't going to stop me from performing at my own wedding.

As the wedding took place over the weekend, come Monday, my body was weak and tired thus Sandy and I took Monday as a rest day. We skipped work.

Oh yes, it was kind of cool when someone walked up to me on Tuesday afternoon asking me if I were the emcee on Sunday night. I was rather surprised as the lady said I did a good job. I joked with her asking if she enjoyed my croaking away - she did. That sure boosted a bit of my ego but seriously, I still dare not watch the video playback of my performance that night. Arghh...

Anyway, its been busy days at work as am rushing out some projects for my clients as well as trying to maintain sleep. I realised that once one loses sleep, he can never catch it back no matter how much one sleeps. Its like chasing lost time - impossible so let's treasure our bedtime and try our best not to skip sleep. Skipping meals is fine but skipping sleep causes a lost mind.

Lunar New Year ...

Like I always say, good days fly pass really quick. Quicker than the blink of an eye.

Its been about 5 days since I updated my blog and I have to admit there have been so many things that took place during this festive season of the Lunar New Year - a celebration to mark the new beginning for the Chinese community.

It usually starts off with a reunion dinner on the eve of the New Year with immediate family. Like most Chinese families, the reunion dinner is an important affair. Its a day where family members get together for a meal. Perhaps, on Sundays, its reunion dinner throughout the year as we often gather at Godpa's place for a simple dinner. Its not what we eat that counts but the quality time we give one another.

As per Chinese tradition, home visits take place and exchange of gifts and red packets are part of the tradition. During this period, I usually get extra income but it seems that this is going to be the last year that I am free from giving out red packets. If you do not already know, married couples will have to give out red packets and thus no escape for me but I am sure I will enjoy the process of distributing red packets.

During this few days of celebration ( given that its a long weekend in Singapore), we indulge in food, snacks, alcohol and most importantly, gambling. I had quite a number of rounds of blackjack and the result is - negative. Have been in a losing streak but it doesn't matter, its all part of the fun losing to family and friends. ; ) So if you won my money, feel bad not.

Today is Sunday and tomorrow is not a holiday. Sigh, work is likely waiting for me at my work desk. I guess that's life. Again, like I always say " a bad day like any other good day will pass us by quickly " thus, am looking forward to the weekend again. ; )

Mother & child

This afternoon as I walked out for lunch, I saw something that disturbed me a little. A mother had her ears plugged in with wired headphones listening to an MP3 player while crossing the road and holding the hands of her primary school daughter.

Her daughter who was probably about eight years of age was calling out to her mother, telling her not to cross as the 'red man' was still there. The mother wasn't bothered but walked on singing her favourite tune and ignoring the little girl's plea.

I didn't understand what was going on in the mother's head. Did she not care about the life of her child or was she just unaware that she and her daughter run the risk of being knocked down by a moving car.

Even a little girl of this age knows about the lurking danger of crossing the road illegally, what more dangerous can it be when crossing the road with music pumping in the ear? I seriously don't think the mother was fit for parenthood.

By the way, which sane mother would sing to her own world of downloaded MP3 songs and forget the presence of her daughter? Only the insane and uncaring ones. Its sad isn't it?

Guilt stricken...

Just on Friday, I reminded myself that Sunday is going to be a shopping day for my two brothers but I forgot about it completely.

After having learnt last night that they stayed home all day just waiting for me made me guilt stricken.I know that I haven't been paying much attention to them recently and I haven't been playing any part in their growth as teenagers. It seems like I reflect a bad brother in me.

So what can I do to reverse things? Seriously, its not going to be easy. These two brothers won't rip me off my bank statement by asking for material stuff. They just don't and I feel even more guilty this way.

Shucks. By saying such, am just opening myself as a target for future rip offs but am just proud that this two brothers of mine behave well and are reasonable chaps. This shows that they have grown up and have matured in their thinking. Keep it up boys!

warm regards,
Mark Chong